Thanks to thomas_adam in the FVWM chat room on the FREE NODE irc network, I have gotten FVWM much closer to looking the way I want it to look. See the Screen Shot below.
If you want to mess with my config file for FVWM (but as Thomas said it has alot of FVWM 1.x stuff still in it so if you don’t like that you might want to avoid this file) you can get my config file at http://www.mikeoconnor.net/linuxConfigs/.fvwm2rc